Busting Excuses
Why you deserve a boudoir experience with CBP!
When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves or spend $ on self care; spend $ on ourself. Sometimes life is just busy, we work long hours, or are busy with the kiddos, or always catching up on house work. We also use excuses like "I wanna lose 15 lbs first!" and "I just don't have the monev right now!". I wanted to write this to show you all that no matter the excuse, you deserve to love yourself and feel confident! Let me show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of self love!
“I don’t have enough time for myself”
It's also important to remember that if you aren't taking care of yourself mentally, you're not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else, which makes sense but is actually much harder said than done! When you are always on the go, taking care of everyone and everything, it’s so easy to skip taking care of yourself. Truth is, if you don’t make the time for your self care, who is going to? I make the same excuses as above and sometimes I need someone to look me in the face and say, “STOP what your doing, take a deep breath, and do something for you for a change! Because we all know its WAY overdue!
“ I’m not where I want to be weight wise/ I don’t like my body.”
Did you know that the body type portrayed an advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT
WHY do you have to be a certain size to LOVE yourself? WHY do you have to fit a strangers crazy idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no 2 women are the same!
I think it's amazing to have goals and want to get healthy, but does that mean you have to hate your body to do those things? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so that you can be proud of where you're going. Boudoir is about loving your self today exactly how you are imperfections and all, its not about changing yourself to be something else. Its about loving yourself , and seeing your true beauty that all your loved ones see. Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate where you are now, and then have one when you lose that 50 lbs to celebrate how far you've come!
When you hire a professional photographer, the boudoir experience will do just that, it will teach you to love yourself today, tomorrow and yesterday. Your size or shape will no longer matter you will except you for being you. Your photographer will pose you accordingly to accentuate your favorite features, and they will help you find the perfect outfit to fit your body shape all while keeping your insecurities in mind. As you can se the experience is so much more than getting your photo taken, it will make you look and feel like a goddess! 99% of my clients always say..” wow that doesn’t even look like me?? Im hot, I look amazing! “ You will be so in love with yourself that you will love your body, now.
"I never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a
boudoir shoot must not be for me.
W R O N G!
This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot.
Often times we lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of health/kids/work. It happens a lot and it is completely okay! A great way to find this side of ourselves again, to feel and look sexy is to have a boudoir shoot done to put that spark back in us. I can empower you, help you feel sexy and love yourself again, and even ignite a spark in your relationship!
Another thing to remember is that you don't HAVE to wear super sexy clothing/ lingerie. If you feel like this doesn't show your personality, then there are so many other outfit ideas. If you need ideas, I will gladly talk to you about them.
I have a lot of blemishes, scaring, stretch marks, cellulite.. I can’t look as pretty as the girls you post.
Do the women we post have these things? YES. Can you see them in their photos? NO. That is part of what’s included in your the experience. When you book a session with us we offer complimentary glamour retouches, which includes a skin smooth and retouching on blemishes. We do not change you or edit anything that is permanent but we mask any blemishes, ect. so they aren’t as visible to human eye, and we pose you to accentuate your favorite features while keeping in mind those that you are insecure about. Posing and your outfit selection is key. We offer a 400 piece lingerie client closet for all of our clients to use for their session, as we know from experience which outfits look best on all body shapes. Which is also why we offer you a fitting appointment where we will hand select outfits for you to wear to fit your body shape perfectly.
I have no confidence , there is no way I can do a session.
That is EXACTLY why you SHOULD do a session! No one walks in our door with confidence, but the 100+ women a year that walk out our door are glowing with confidence wishing they booked sooner!
Most women struggle finding confidence in themselves, which is actually what boudoir is all about! We want to empower you and help give you that confidence boost that you’ve been searching for. CONFIDENCE, is something you gain AFTER a boudoir experience. We help you accept your insecurities and learn to love yourself more.
Im a plus sized girl I’m too big for boudoir.
FALSE!
Boudoir is for EVERYbody, it does not discriminate in your shape, size, color, age, single or taken.. If you are a women , single or in a relationship, boudoir is for you! The number on your scale is just that , a number. it teaches you to love yourself for exactly how you are. You are never to old for boudoir, but we do have a restriction to be 21+. At CBP we specialize in plus size boudoir, 75% of our clientele range from sizes 1XL-6XL. If you are single you can do a session and celebrate yourself, or if you are in a relationship you can give the perfect anniversary or birthday gift!
"A boudoir shoot is an investment and I
don't have all the money right now.”
Yes, a boudoir shoot IS an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. And you are worth that investment. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well. You deserve to feel confident, sexy and beautiful, and that’s exactly what a boudoir experience gives you. We do offer payment plans to fit your budget and help you save with our in house payment plans leading up to the day of your session! If you have any questions about our payment plans, shoot us an email and we can set up a consult!
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Chelsea Brinton
Owner & Photographer